Choices and Changes

One of the hardest parts of a divorce is dealing with the massive change it brings to your life. And that change can continue for years after an actual divorce or breakup. But change is part of life. Every minute of every day brings change. And in each instant, we...

Are You Stuck After Your Divorce?

Recently I’ve been interacting with a lot of divorced people (both men and women) in various forums and groups. And it’s become abundantly clear that many divorced people are stuck. They’re stuck in their misery. They’re stuck in their sorrow. They’re stuck in their...

Where Are You Getting Your Divorce Advice?

I’ve been listening to some Internet radio shows and reading some books about divorce recently, just to keep current with what’s out there. And I have to say that, with all due respect to the authors and guests on these radio shows, there is some very bad information...

Are You Living On Purpose or On Auto Pilot?

I was in Los Angeles last weekend and went to the beach on Saturday. I grew up in L.A. and have driven to the beach more times than I can count. Well, last Saturday morning I wasn’t paying attention to where I was and didn’t realize I was in the wrong lane on the...