Your Most Valuable Asset

What Is Your Most Valuable Asset? This is a question I frequently pose to my clients and when I do, I get a variety of responses such as my wedding rings, my home, my family, my financial portfolio, my dog (or cat), and everything in between (including some that are...

Reclaim Your Trust

“Trust your instinct to the end, though you can render no response.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson A client recently asked me how she can ever trust anyone again after her divorce. I asked her what trust means to her, and she struggled to find an answer. Trust seems to...

My Leap of Faith

My life is about to change in ways I never imagined. By the time you read this, I will have resigned from my full-time job as a paralegal. Why this is such a big deal? Why am I taking such a big leap of faith? There are many reasons, but here are just a few. 1. I am...

Letting Go of the Dream

Let’s face it. The end of a marriage or long-term relationship is the end of many things, including the hopes and dreams you once had. Even when the decision to end the relationship is yours, it can still be very hard to let go. And painful. If you chose to end it,...

Get Naked and Fall In Love This Valentine’s Day

Recently I’ve heard several people comment that Valentine’s Day is the “Hallmark Holiday,” meaning that it was made up by a greeting card company. So I did some digging around, and I learned that there actually is quite a history to Valentine’s Day. Regardless of...

Newly Single & Sensational During the Holidays

The holidays can be one of the most challenging and difficult times of the year if you’re single, especially if it’s your first holiday season alone. I’m not going to sugarcoat it – it can be harder than you imagined. Many people find the loneliness overwhelming. Here...

Courage In Post-Divorce Life

I’ve been absent for a while. But my self-imposed sabbatical is ending. So where have I been? I did a lot of traveling in September and October, attended two amazing workshops, and was a bridesmaid in my oldest friend’s wedding in CA. And while all of these events...